My girls knew the deal and were fully aware that they were coming over for sex, but I still needed to be respectful and sometimes take the girl out to do something instead of just having sex with her and then watching TV.
By going after your life purpose with unrelenting determination, you won’t always have a lot of time for her.
But a little consideration, some warning ahead of time, an acknowledgement of fault, and a sincere effort to protect the people around you will go a long way.
Be in the Moment Think of dating less as an iterative process for finding someone perfect and more like a series of potentially enjoyable evenings with beautiful strangers.
It's Not What You Say, It's How You Say It Most people you meet are prepared for you to do something shitty to them. But there's a big difference between a bad thing done poorly and a bad thing done well.
L, a friend I can only describe as having advanced degrees in the science of online dating, says, "My personal experience is that people don't worry about what is happening as much as they do how it is happening.